Proper Timing: The Key to Starting a Meaningful and Lasting Relationship

Timing is everything when it comes to asking a girl out. Many relationships fail not because couples are wrong for each other but because of wrong timing. More often than not, the people we thought were meant for us came either too early or too late in our lives. Bad timing is a reality we must accept.

Timing problems

Some of the timing problems we encounter have something to do with circumstances and events in our lives. For instance, you are attracted to a girl and you ask her out. But it is not that simple. You may find out later that the girl is nursing a heartbreak and is not ready yet to date again. Or maybe she has started to date another guy a few weeks before you asked her out. Perhaps, she has personal or family problems that have to be resolved before she could commit herself to you.

Dating tips and proper timing

When asking a girl out, give flexible choices of locations and dates so that she could decide the setup that will be convenient to her. What should you do when a girl declines to date you? Do not assume outright that she is just making excuses. If the girl says no, let her know that you understand her reasons for refusing to go out on a date with you. Also, tell her that if her schedule frees up, you are willing to make arrangements again.

However, be careful not to give the impression that you are very desperate to date her. Don’t be too available because the girl might find you uninteresting. Enhance your appeal by making it appear that you, too, are busy and not too eager to spend some time with her.

Get your timing right, and you will have better chances of successful dating.